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SCRIPTURE
1 Corinthians 13.11
When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became an adult, I put away childish things.
WORDS OF HOPE
Growing up, I often had a problem reaching the finish line on some projects. I always thought it was a fear of failure (or success) but lately I’ve been digging deeper. I finally had an epiphany one day recently. I realized, growing up and in early adulthood, I had lived in 25 different homes. I began considering in which places I had lived the longest vs the homes which were unknowingly temporary.
People have defined that kind of nomadic living as “military style,” moving from base to base. Could be. My father worked for a now defunct airline, Braniff Airways, as a crew scheduler and was transferred to different locations often. It seemed that as soon as we were settled in one location, he would be transferred to another.
For us kids, (three siblings) we were always “sold” by our parents about the fun of moving again, without knowing the routine of losing friends, (no Internet and unlikely rare long distance phone calls) which meant good-bye was goodbye forever. The moves were so engrained in me at those times, that I must have adapted to a few bad practices without even realizing what was happening.
They were: 1) Hurry up and enjoy; 2) Don’t get too attached; 3) Hold back from moving too fast when enjoying anything. 4) Quickly finish everything at the last minute. I’m only beginning to relish sticking with projects until the end, savoring the moment, and not losing sight of overlapping projects getting their proper attention, one at a time.
I’ve realized through the years that our lives consist of a balance between what we learn and what we must unlearn to grow. Besides unlearning the hectic schedules nomadic life taught me, I’ve also been faced with unlearning some toxic lessons fear-based theology ingrained in me in those years in exclusive literalist churches. Actually, unlearning that doctrine was easier to achieve than my work ethics issues. Once a person “sees the light” in a progressive and inclusive church, that heavy veil of fear becomes lighter every day. The Holy Spirit helps, too!
What are things you have learned that you have proactively had to unlearn? If you were to take a moment to look back and ponder, what are some negative childhood lessons you picked up without knowing it? I’m sure there are plenty of experiential stories for each of us. We can’t change the lesson from yesterday, but it is never too late to unlearn a negative childhood lesson once you have discovered it. What kind of impact could that have in you going forward?
PRAYER
Loving God, we are in continuous gratitude to you that through the lessons taught by the Earth-walk of Jesus, we are empowered and equipped to be fully human, too. May we remember that every child of God has the potential to live a life of purpose, to love abundantly, and to be a world changer. Amen.
DEVOTION AUTHOR
Charlie C. Rose
Order of St. Francis and St. Clare
Cathedral of Hope
Proclaiming Christ Through Faith, Hope and Love
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