Wednesday May 15, 2024

Hardy Haberman

SCRIPTURE


John 16; 19-22


Jesus knew that they wanted to ask him, so he said to them, “Are you discussing among yourselves what I meant when I said, ‘A little while, and you will no longer see me, and again a little while, and you will see me’? Very truly, I tell you, you will weep and mourn, but the world will rejoice; you will have pain, but your pain will turn into joy. When a woman is in labor, she has pain because her hour has come. But when her child is born, she no longer remembers the anguish because of the joy of having brought a human being into the world. So, you have pain now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you.


WORDS OF HOPE


When I was a child my father and I used to build model ships. I often wondered why we couldn’t just buy them already completed, but I came to realize that those hours I spent struggling with the tiny parts, carefully cutting them out with an Exact-o knife and sometimes cutting myself in the process made the finished product feel more special to me.


Spending that time with my father and learning how to do the tedious and often painful work is something I wouldn’t trade for anything. It taught me that everything does not come easily and that though something is frustrating and painful it can still give birth to something beautiful and meaningful.


Life is full of difficulties and pain. But it is also filled with joy and happiness. Why both? Perhaps through our pain and struggling we see the pleasant things more clearly and find success means more if we have to work for it.


Jesus tells us we must move through the painful parts of our lives to find the joy that will sustain us.


PRAYER


God who sustains us through our struggles, let us find your joy in everything we do. May the spirit of Jesus be born into us each day. Amen


DEVOTION AUTHOR


Hardy Haberman



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